On Kindness

On Kindness

TODAY’S WORD by Susan Shira with an introduction by Pastor Jim…
 
Most of us are not in a position to change the course of history, affect international policy or travel to far off lands to work with the poorest of the poor.
 
We are simply trying to survive, feed our families, nurse our loved ones, or rehab our own aches and pains.
 
That reality does not change the fact that every day, we wake up with the opportunity to make a difference where we are. Little acts of kindness make the world a better place.
 
TLC’s Susan Shira offers us this beautiful and inspiring reflection about kindness.
 
ON KINDNESS
-A Reflection by Susan Shira-
 
Some mornings are harder than most. On one such recent morning I started to recall my usual litany of the things for which I am thankful. However, I found the thoughts that were percolating to the surface of my mind all centered on the many times kindness has been shown to my husband and me in the years since he became blind and, most especially, in the years since he had a stroke that left him in need of full-time care. The realization was almost palpable, that the kindness of others was the tangible expression of God’s presence and loving care. These kindnesses were the actual embodiment of God drawing near.
 
My litany changed that day as I began to recall kindnesses:
 

• A simple text arrived: Can my buddy and I have a visit today, just the two of us?

• A silly, whacky video clip showed up in a phone message.

• A prayer was prayed during a visit, for God’s presence and strength to uphold, while a little child took in that scene seeing firsthand how faith and kindness are inseparable.

• A card arrived from someone unknown bearing a message of hope and caring.
 
• A potted plant, a Bleeding Heart, appeared on the doorstep the day after the sudden death of our beloved dog.
 
• A loving visit, the most recent in 10 years of visits, from one friend coming to spend time with his shut-in friend.
 
• A thank you was uttered, one of hundreds said over these past years, for loving care.
 
• A pair of simple questions were asked: Are you OK? Why not? They were asked just minutes after the first time my husband did not know who I was.
 
• A fellow jazz aficionado sent a link to the music of an artist not listened to before.
 
• A quart of homemade ice cream delivered for storage in our freezer.
 
• A young child, knowing very well that her daddy gives good gifts, asked him to buy new eyes for Grampy.
 
• A knock on the front door after the delivery of just-out-of-the-oven scones alongside a jar of homemade jam.
 
• A phone call from a fellow USMC vet. They met in 1953 en route to Korea. The call ended, per usual, with “Semper Fi, buddy.”
 
• A word of encouragement was given from a friend who twice has walked the path I now am walking: “It is hard, but you can do it!”
 
The words of Job 10:22 came alive for me….
 
“You gave me life and showed me kindness, and in your providence watched over my spirit.”
 
— Susan Shira
 
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Thank you, Susan, for these inspiring words!
 
I hope to see you all in church tomorrow. It is T-shirt Sunday and we will be focusing on the role of prayer in our lives.
 
One day closer.
PJ
Aunt Alice Lee

Aunt Alice Lee

Today’s Word from Pastor Jim

“Rejoice in the Lord always, again I will say rejoice… for I have learned to be content with whatever I have. I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances, I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” The Apostle Paul

“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior become your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.” Mahatma Ghandi

I mentioned my Aunt Alice in my morning writing yesterday. My grandfather’s sister was a strong Norwegian woman who had been raised on a farm. She married Louie Lee and gave birth to my cousin David. My Aunt Alice would greet me and my siblings each week at the Sunday School opening. She would hold our cheeks, give us a kiss, and speak good news: “Aunt Alice loves you, and Jesus loves you.”

My Uncle Louie was struck and killed by a train. The gravel roads that crisscrossed the farm fields of Northern Illinois were not well marked. There were not warning lights or indicators of approaching trains. Aunt Alice became a single mother. She never lost her faith.

David, her only child, was diagnosed with cancer. It was a brave fight, but the disease would win. My aunt would stand at graveside once again as the 23rd Psalm was read by a Lutheran Pastor: “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.”

Alice Lee was an inspiration to me. She was there when I was baptized, confirmed, married, and ordained. She would always greet me with a kiss and a smile. In her final years, she lost her vision. Now blind, she could no longer live in her apartment. So, she was moved to the County Home – the poor farm, as it was known in DeKalb, Illinois.

My father and I went to visit her there. We checked at the nursing station. The nurse said, “She is in room 24, but good luck finding her; she is never in her room.” When we did track her down, the old, blind widow who buried her only son, was sitting with another resident, sharing laughter and prayer.

She told us that there were so many lonely people in the County Home and she had decided that the best way that she could serve was to make the rounds each day and visit with the residents. She smiled and gave me a kiss. She loved me, and Jesus loved me.

The isolation, anxiety, and loneliness that we are feeling today are real. But we need not be defined by what we have lost. We are not alone. We can choose an attitude of gratitude. We can count blessings and ride this disruption out knowing that better days are coming.

Some quotes for your day:

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at stars.” Oscar Wilde.

“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” Epictetus.

“Two things define you: your patience when you have nothing and your attitude when you have everything.” George Bernard Shaw.

May God bless your day!

Pastor Jim

“Don’t it always seem to go, that you don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone”

“Don’t it always seem to go, that you don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone”

“Don’t it always seem to go, that you don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone”
Today’s Word from Pastor Jim

When I was boy, I never wanted to go to bed. Today, they would call it FOMO—Fear of Missing Out. I wanted to stay up late. My siblings were all older. They had a later bedtime and I did not like it. I was not especially fond of the little rug that I took to kindergarten, either. At the appointed time we were supposed to roll out that little rug and take a nap. I wanted nothing to do with it. Finger painting was fun. Story time was good. There were lots of things I liked about kindergarten, but I had no use for naptime.

The exception to this rule was in church. My family worshiped at Trinity Lutheran Church on Seventh Street in DeKalb, Illinois. My extended family was there as well. A Norwegian family church made up of farmers and blue-collar workers.

My Aunt Alice was there to greet us each week for the Sunday School opening. I liked Sunday School. My teacher, Mrs. Eike, challenged us to memorize the books of the Bible in order. There was a prize for everyone who could accomplish this feat. I do not remember what the prize was; remember, my best subject was recess. I still do not have those books memorized.

My mother was a Sunday School teacher or superintendent every year. When class was over my mom would round up her three kids and go upstairs to see if my dad had arrived yet. Once he got to church, we all moved toward our family pew. My grandparents’ assigned seats were up front, but with little kids in tow, my parents sat back right.

Church was boring. We began with the same opening hymn most every week. Three lessons, everything predictable, no jokes, no Smarties, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. It did not take long for me to be asleep. I would just lay down in the pew, put my head in my mother’s lap, she would run her fingers through my hair, and I was out. Wake me up when it is time for breakfast.

“Don’t it always seem to go, that you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone.”

I would love to go back for a Sunday and be a boy again. I would love to sit in that pew with my now deceased parents and my older siblings. But I guess what I am really missing right now, is you. I miss our hugs on Sunday morning. I miss greeting each of you. I miss the teasing, touching, and praying. I have a greater appreciation now for the beautiful way that we share the journey together on Sunday mornings.

This Sunday at 8 a.m. we will post the worship service at the following locations:
Trinity’s Website: www.trinitylutheranfreeland.org
Facebook: facebook.com/trinitylutheranchurchfreeland
Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/channels/tlcfreelandwa

Join me please. Karl will be singing, I will be preaching from an empty sanctuary to homes that are filled with cabin-fever people. I am hopeful that we will be together again very soon. Until then, be safe, stay positive, give thanks, isolate yourselves, and keep smiling! I need to see those smiles.

Much love, my quarantined friends!

 

 

 

Pastor Jim

 
Drills

Drills

A Word from Pastor Jim

I remember the drills. Not the dentist; that is a different story. Not the drills that my golf coach had for us; that, too, is a different story. The good news or bad news is that if this coronavirus goes on for weeks or months, you may indeed get to hear all of my stories.

Where was I? Oh, yes, the drills from grade school. “Class, we are all going to be practicing our drills this morning.” I was thrilled! I hated math. I could not spell. My best subjects were recess and drills.

“Now class, if there is an emergency, we will tell you what to do. So, do not panic, everything will be OK. Now, who knows what to do if there is a nuclear attack by the Russians?” The fat boy in the back of the room who could not spell or do math, quickly raised his hand. “Jimmy, what do we do?” “We get under our desks and cover our heads and wait for the blast to pass.” “Very good Jimmy! Now class, let’s practice and remember, do not hurry or panic.”

What followed was three minutes of a simulated nuclear explosion. I am guessing that our school was gone and most everyone we loved was incinerated, but we were safe under our desks.

“Now class, what do we do if there is a tornado coming? Jimmy, let someone else answer, I promise you we will go to recess soon.” Rita raised her hand. “Mrs. Burke, we go out in the hall and stand with our heads against the lockers to protect us.” “Very good, Rita. In a minute the alarm will sound and we will not panic. Just walk by rows out into the hall to the lockers and take your places until we get the all clear signal.”

I am not sure what those drills were for, but I guess I did feel safer when I heard about tornadoes or Russians. But in reality, it was an illusion. Life is inherently dangerous. Even if we play it safe, follow the rules, wash our hands, eat low-fat foods, and look both ways before crossing the street we can still be caught up at any moment in a calamity.

The coronavirus is a crisis that is not of our making. We had nothing to do with it, but it is here. Suddenly, and with very little warning, we are all imperiled. Getting under our desks or standing in the hallway will do little to lessen the risk. Our finances are in shambles, our roads and cities are locked down. We are not allowed to worship together. We are, however, fortunate to live in a place where we can still go out for recess. In major cities, the opportunity to walk the beach or the neighborhood has been taken away for public safety.

We are not responsible for this crisis, but we are not helpless either. We were baptized for moments like this. We have the opportunity to be beacons of hope to our neighbors. We can order food from local restaurants. We can use technology to reach out to friends, old and new. In the church office, we are making every effort to keep in contact with some 1,000 people.

Let’s be clear, this will get worse before it gets better. We know that we will not be worshiping together for at least eight weeks. The virus is here, we have several in our parish who have tested positive already. We know that there will be more.

The drills. The drills will not protect us 100%. Life has no such guarantees. Do not be afraid, and do not panic. Here is the drill: wash your hands, stay away from others, pray for health care workers and first responders, pray for those who have tested positive for the virus, send a card, email, or letter, and hold on to hope. This crisis will not last. This virus will have a shelf life, and brilliant scientists are working to defeat it.

And finally, do not forget my favorite subject: recess. Get out of your house and go for a walk, enjoy the sunshine and the beauty of Whidbey Island, breathe deep knowing that God is with us and we are in this together.

My love to you!

 

 

Pastor Jim

Church In a Time of Coronavirus

Church In a Time of Coronavirus

“I thank my God in every remembrance of you.” Philippians 1:3

Worship services this Sunday will be canceled. In good conscience we cannot put a vulnerable population at further risk. A good shepherd will not expose the flock to unnecessary danger. Until further notice we will not be worshiping together on Sunday morning.

For the safety of all, our campus has been closed.

The South Whidbey Schools have closed until at least April 24. The Trinity Preschool will follow that lead and close as well.

We will not be worshiping on Sunday, but we are not canceling church! Because we are the church together. The church is not a building or a worship service. The church is a family of followers of Jesus Christ. We will continue to follow Jesus by living, loving, and serving.

We will be looking for a few individuals or teams that would be willing to deliver groceries to our shut-in seniors. A friendly familiar face at the door delivering life giving sustenance would also deliver hope. If you are healthy and could help with this ministry, please let us know. If you are shut-in and in need of a delivery please email or call the office.

We ask that you would call vulnerable shut-in church folks or neighbors just to check in and visit. If we are to be the church, then no one should be alone in this time of crisis.

We will not be worshiping on Sunday, but we are not canceling church. This Sunday you will be able to watch a sermon and hear Karl sing by following any of these links:
Trinity’s website
Facebook
Vimeo

We will continue to be the church together, and some day this Spring we will have a homecoming on a Sunday morning. This too shall pass, this chapter will slip into history, and we will emerge stronger together, following Jesus together.

Much love,

Pastor Jim

Our Life Together and the Coronavirus

Our Life Together and the Coronavirus

A Word From Pastor Jim About Our Life Together and the Coronavirus

At TLC we care about our community and the well-being, abundant life of all.

There is no need to panic about the coronavirus, but we will use best practices to be prudent and responsible. Our staff is monitoring the situation and we are thankful that to date there are no reported cases of coronavirus in Island County. However, we do know that the senior population is the most vulnerable and so we will proceed with caution.

In light of the recent events in the State of Washington we will be making some temporary changes in our worship practices.

There WILL be church this Sunday at 8, 9:30 and 11 a.m.

There will NOT be Holy Communion this Sunday. We may suspend the celebration of Holy Communion altogether for some period of time.
If you are sick or have any symptoms, you are encouraged to stay home and watch the sermon online.

We encourage everyone to wash their hands upon arrival at TLC. We will dispense with hugs and handshakes until the Coronavirus situation is better understood. Ushers and greeters will greet you, but will not make physical contact. There will be no greeting line after the service. The coffee hours will be conducted as usual, with servers wearing gloves. Please wash/sanitize hands before attending coffee hour.

This Sunday we ask you to take your bulletins home with you for recycling.
We will suspend the printing of bulletins until further notice.

We are not canceling regular church activities at this time; we are simply asking everyone to use good sense and precaution.

Lenten Services will go on as scheduled, but the Lenten Meals have been canceled. Holden Evening Prayer Services will take place every Thursday at 7 p.m.

You can always watch sermons online at TrinityLutheranFreeland.org, or on Facebook at Facebook.com/TrinityLutheranChurchFreeland.

Fear will not win the day! Do not be afraid, but do look both ways before you cross the street, do stay home if you are sick, and do wash your hands.

My love and prayers to you all!

 

 

 

Pastor Jim