For Christ’s Sake!

For Christ’s Sake!

Today’s Word from Pastor Tom Kidd…  

Long before he became disgraced and appropriately incarcerated, Bill Cosby delighted millions of fans with his comedic routines about his life growing up. Now, it was never permissible to swear in my family (I remember my mother backhanding me for saying “son of a gun,” assuming a different rendering). Yet, Dad laughed himself silly when, in one of his routines about life growing up with his father, Cosby commented, “I was twelve before I realized my name wasn’t Goddamit!”

So, I learned that being provocative with the Lord’s name for entertainment’s sake was somehow more permissible. I confess that paradigm was to later become a bit of a personal breeding ground for trouble. Anyway, I knew growing up I could still expect a backhand if I were to utter such an expression.

Similarly, I remember a friend who always knew he was in trouble if, before his name, his father would utter the words, “For Christ’s sake….” I never ever remember that expression being uttered in a positive or encouraging context. Rather, always as a critical prelude to a description of failure, disgust, or rejection. Isn’t that strange? Christ’s name being uttered in such a context?

Years later, as an adult, a senior mentor of mine was speaking to me of his failed relationship with his father, when he invoked the very same phrase, but in an entirely different context. He shared how he had come to the place where he needed to speak truth to his father. He did not like his father, and wasn’t particularly interested in a relationship with him. As a man of faith, my mentor believed there was an unfinished piece to his father’s story. “If my father is ever to experience grace in his life, then he must know the truth, for Christ’s sake.”

When motivation to do the right thing is lacking, maybe we can find the courage to do it for Christ’s sake? Interesting. God is God, and grace is grace, regardless of our participation. Yet, if an action gives God the glory, then we are doing it for Christ’s sake. A former parishioner, a 90-year-old widowed former pastor’s wife, when asked why she participated in freedom marches, would respond, “For Christ’s sake!” Of course, there were all the appropriate boxes checked as to the need for justice for the disenfranchised, women’s rights, black lives matter, etc. But ultimately it came down to, “For Christ’s sake!” Her Lord had redeemed her, and grace had set her free to act for Christ’s sake, on behalf of others. She has never failed to inspire me. Next to her, I can feel a bit fraudulent as to my motives… I might act because that’s what a pastor is supposed to do; she acts for Christ’s sake.

No one has to remind us that life can feel perilous, and our country is currently being challenged to its very moral fiber. What inspires the shaping of your opinions, and animates your willingness to respond? Your political disposition? Your moral compass? Convenience? How about, for Christ’s sake? MLK always offers for me a Jesus word, “I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” Do it for… you get it.

God’s peace be upon you. We are, as our pastor is wont to say, “One day closer!”

Pastor Tom

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Confronting a Personal History

Confronting a Personal History

Today’s Word from Rev. David Bieniek…  

The events of the past few weeks have weighed heavy on my soul. I grew up in a single-mother, lower economic household in South Texas. Racism was all around me. And I hate to admit it, but it is embedded in my family history as well. None of my family was around in 1861, because the entire family emigrated in the late 1800’s, but if they had been, my family would have fought (and lost) with the Confederacy. There is still a pride in my family that I do not understand.

In fourth grade, I had a life-changing experience. I went to an integrated school. I remember clearly that my three best friends were a white boy named Ted, a black boy named Anthony, and a Hispanic boy named Gus. For whatever reason, we all clicked and enjoyed each other’s company. I came away from that year realizing that race did not matter. I am not sure I knew that, as much as I felt it. Gus and Anthony were not thugs looking to rob me or take whatever they could from the government, as the systemic racism taught me at home. They were just people. They were…friends.

Almost 50 years later, I realize that I still struggle with racism, from my childhood as well as from the media, political figures, and society as a whole. No matter how much I believe the words of Martin Luther King Jr., that we need to be judged by the content of our character instead of the color of our skin, the old tapes continue to run.

Whidbey Island is the whitest place I have ever lived. It is hard to face racism when we do not have much of a chance to interact with people of different races in the world around us. Yet, it is what we are called to do right now, in this time, and by Jesus of Nazareth, a poor person of color.

I do believe Jesus had to confront his own racism in his life. We read the story of him calling the Syro-Phoenician woman a dog because she dared ask him to heal her daughter. I believe that event is not just a nice story, but a time when Jesus realized he was human and had to confront his own upbringing in a society that looked down on many other groups.

I also believe that we, too, are called by today’s religious leaders to speak out and act to end racism. The Presiding Bishop of the ELCA, Bishop Elizabeth Eaton, just this week spoke to us and challenged us to do several things when faced with racism:
– Do not deny our anger, but use it to bring about change
– Remain disquieted
– Work for peace; not a passive peace, but a peace to build a just society.
She ends with a statement that until the white majority feel the pain of black and brown people as OUR own pain, it will not be safe to be black or brown in our country. (Follow this link to see Bishop Eaton’s video message: https://youtu.be/OuvLb1iZDrc ).

People of God, we have our marching orders. We need to confront not only the racism without, but also the racism within. We can grow from this, and we can build a more peaceable Dominion of God where the wolf lies down with the lamb, and the black child, the brown child, and the white child, can play together in peace.

Ted, Anthony, and Gus, I have lost track of you over the years, but wherever you are, thank you for starting the lesson in me so long ago.

Rev. Dave Bieniek

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Notes From TLC

Notes From TLC

Today’s Word from Pastor Jim…  

The Presiding Bishop of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) is the Rev. Elizabeth Eaton. This past week, she provided a sermon that could be shared across the ELCA. Follow the links below and be blessed by the preaching of our Presiding Bishop:

Follow this link to watch on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=685161552305725

This week, Trinity Lutheran Church was able to support the following ministries:
• Enso House in Freeland $1,500
• Pacific Rim Institute of Coupeville $1,000
• Hearts and Hammers Whidbey Island $2,000
• South Whidbey Homeless Coalition $1,500
• Helping Hand of South Whidbey $2,000
• Josephine Sunset Nursing Home Stanwood $1,000

Thanks to your generous support of TLC, you are present and helping in non-profits near and far.

One day closer.
Pastor Jim

June TLC Birthdays:
June 1 – Erica McGrath, Ainsley Nelson
June 2 – Aaron Maher, Paul Onerheim
June 3 – Susan Olberding, Dean Hatt
June 6 – Kelsi Lindus, Trudy Martin
June 7 – George Henny
June 8 – Jan Allen, Faith McBiles, Joan Blasko
June 9 – Sandy Lasley
June 11 – Kristi Etzell, Drew Staats
June 13 – Dave Hartnett
June 14 – Karen Tangeman, Mary Jo Keil
June 15 – Jenny Campbell, Paul Kukuk, Felicia Lindus, Ian Maher
June 16 – Adam Hess, Oran Downs, Barry Bjork
June 17 – Bill Cochran
June 20 – Butch Donaldson, Lynne Hossfeld, Jackson Shelton
June 21 – Laura Gregory
June 23 – Joanne Guernsey
June 25 – Joyce Hewitson, Herb Hossfeld
June 28 – Kailey Ricketts
June 29 – Darrell Dyer, Frank Gandarias, Janice Lieberg
June 30 – Lorraine Carter, Brandon Chiarizio

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Comfort in Memes

Comfort in Memes

Today’s Word from Deacon Amy…  

If you’ve spent any time on Facebook or Instagram, you probably know what a meme is. Memes have become a form of communication in our culture, especially popular among younger generations. Dictionary.com defines a meme as, “a cultural item in the form of an image, video, phrase, etc., that is spread via the Internet and often altered in a creative or
Humorous way.”

Many of the most popular memes are humorous. Memes tend to take something from popular culture or current events, add a funny line to it, and send it out into the world via the internet. It’s amazing how quickly memes can travel, and how far they can go. There are entire web sites and social media groups devoted to sharing memes.

Comfort can also be found via meme. Sometimes memes don’t have pictures – just thought-provoking text. Although social media and email streams can be full of negative news right now, I’m finding joy and comfort in some of the uplifting memes that are being passed around. Sometimes, we can even find good theology in these popular images.

There is also a Christian side to meme culture. Mystery artists somewhere out there are taking popular images from Christian art, or creating new images of their own, and adding thoughtful and inspirational messages to them. Memes are quick reads, and easily shared. This can be a simple and powerful way to spread the Good News!

Memes can be used to share opinions, advice, and theology. They can bring on a smile, encourage laughter, lift someone’s spirits, or bring comfort on a gray day. Memes can also call us to action.

Simple reminders of the limitless love that Jesus taught are just a click away. Feel free to share!

Love & Blessings,
Deacon Amy

What Can I Say?

What Can I Say?

Today’s Word from Pastor Jim…  
 
Riots, protests, murder, racial tension, political turmoil, cities burning, and Covid-19 is put on the back burner for now.
 
I am trying to think of what to say, that might be helpful. My tendency is not to speak unless I feel like I have something to add to the conversation, and I certainly don’t want to insult anyone’s intelligence by restating what is obvious.
 
I have come to realize that as a white, cisgender male, I have been privileged in ways that I do, and do not, understand.
 
I realize that as a white, cisgender male, I have never walked a mile in the shoes of those who are not so privileged. Much less have I walked a mile in the shoes of those who are discriminated against: women, LGBTQ people, minorities, Native Americans, refugees, immigrants, or the disabled.
 
I have not been a target for abuse, or the victim of prejudice based on my race, religion, or gender.
 
Having said that, I am not really sure what to say. What could I say that would be helpful? What could I say that is not going to insult someone’s intelligence?
 
I could say that racism is a sin. Do I really need to make that point?
I could say that all children are the children of God. Do I really need to say that?
I could say that God loves people who are black or brown. Do I really need to say that?
I could say that our leaders should be humble public servants. Do I really need to say that?
I could say that there is a long, ongoing history of systematic racism in our country. Do I really need to say that?
I could say that everyone has the right to peacefully protest. But is that not a given?
 
Do I really need to remind Christians that the primary teaching of Jesus was the love of neighbor? Do we not understand that by now?
 
Do we really need to review the Biblical understanding of neighbor? The concept was never limited to our own tribe, color, race, or religion. All of God’s children are our neighbors. All means all. All colors, all genders, all races, all classes, all orientations, all nations, all ages. All means all.
 
What can I say? What can I say that is not obvious? Perhaps, we just need to be reminded every so often of the obvious. Perhaps, it is a good time to honor our Creator, the one who created us with two ears and only one mouth. Perhaps, we can best honor our Creator and our neighbor by listening to stories that are not our own.
 
I will never walk a mile in your shoes, but if I try, maybe I can close my mouth long enough to hear you. I can listen, really listen, without feeling like I need to formulate a profound response, or retreat into a defensive posture. I can listen, taking the time to hear about the places you have been, the experiences that you have had; and then maybe I can come to a better understanding of human stories that are different than my own.
 
What can I say that is not obvious? What can I say that will not insult someone’s intelligence?
 
Our country is in turmoil. Healing will take work. Healing can only take place if we listen to each other and work together for the common good. Our country is a mess. It is up to us to fix it. It starts now.
 
Much love,
 
Pastor Jim
 
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